Jealousy

Jealousy comes from a lack, its an insecurity. Feeling unworthy, inside there is a void.

After speaking with so many clients about this subject I felt the need to write. Some think if the person they are involved with feels jealous that means they care. Makes them feel wanted or gives them a boost of ego and esteem. It can turn into unhealthy obsession as well. If someone wants to go out of there way to make you feel jealous to see how you feel, It's time to think. How do you feel when you feel jealous? Your NOT feeling good about yourself and for someone to want to cause you to not feel good about yourself for there own benefit whether it be consciously or subconsciously.

Jealously breaks down the ability to trust it makes you question yourself and the other person. Jealously can leave you feeling unsure and vulnerable. How is that a healthy relationship?

A significant other is meant to enhance your happiness not be the source of it. When Jealousy is there it is a magnificent wall that inhibits growth and movement.